I have been struggling with writing about the Godfather for a very long time. Why? Because it is a hot-button issue for many Italians. Many Italians are hesitant to say anything bad about these movies because they do capture some elements of Italian home life and traditions that we are all fond of. The scenes of large family gatherings with copious amounts of food and laughter are something we can all relate to and appreciate. 
          The family bonds, issues over respect and loyalty are
            all inherent
            throughout these works and, they do exist in Italian American homes.
            So, writing an article that says “these movies represent us in a
            terrible way,” is not something many fellow Italians are likely to
            agree with. That being said, I think Italians are the last people to
            be judging these movies. We are biased and cannot have an objective
            opinion on these movies. 
          To be objective, we need to look at hard facts. And the
            data
            suggests that the Godfather movies aren't just bad- they're awful. :
          From 1928-1972 (44 years), Hollywood made 207 Italian
            Mafia
            movies (roughly 4.7 movies per year)
          From 1972 (Godfather release) to 2006 (a 34 year span),
            Hollywood
            made 293 Italian Mafia movies. (roughly 8.6 movies per year)
          That increase is alarming and the overall picture is
            worse: From 1928-2006 
  500 Italian mafia
            movies were made. 58 of those films were based on real mafiosi, 442 were fictitious. 
          What were the rates of crime for the Italian American
            population?
            Of roughly 15 million Italian Americans in the 2000 census, 1,150 of
            them were in jail. That's .0078% of the Italian population. It should
            follow that .0078% of movies about Italians are about crime, right?
            Not in the media's mind.
          Granted, the media was having a great time portraying us
as mafiosi before the Godfather- but it seems like the popularity of the
Godfather has made things much worse. Don't forget, iconic films like
"Goodfellas", "Analyze This", and many others followed the
Godfather and
achieved massive success. 
          What I am trying to say with this article is- don't
            dismiss films
            like these. As an Italian, you understand that virtually none of us
            are members of the mafia and that we are intelligent, good-hearted
            people. But society doesn't see us that way because of these films. 
          People base their beliefs on the unknown with what they
            are shown.
            Someone who has never met an Italian before (and trust me, its a good
            segment of the population in America) will say “Hey, 500 movies
            can't be wrong- it has to be based on truth.” And when society
            believes that you are a violent, ignorant criminal, it won't think
            twice of calling you guido, guinea, wop and dago. Unfortunately,
              that day seems to have arrived.